MANIFESTING & LAW OF ATTRACTION

Loving Yourself

As on the Outside, as on the Inside.  Everything is a vibrational match, what is it telling you about your feelings for yourself...?

Most importantly, what do you appreciate about yourself?  What CAN you appreciate about yourself?  Just like when you look at a baby or a pet and have feelings of love and appreciation, it is because you are associating to the positive aspects of them and not to negative perceptions - your feelings are very pure.  It's the same with yourself, what can you appreciate?  And what can you think less of?

There are no limits to how much you can love yourself or someone else, just like the Universe, it is Abundant and Infinite

                              

Timing - Allowing the Universe to Bring you What you Want

This was a reply to a post that Xio wrote about Timing and the Universe bringing you what you want on the Universal Law Of Attraction group on Facebook,

Absolutely, there's a quote I heard which is that 'God's Delays Are Not God's Denials'  lol.

Where you are is perfect, you do not need to be anywhere else, everything is in alignment for you to be where you are at Now, what is most important in all of this is to maintain your alignment, that is to be in line with your good feelings/love/joy/appreciation etc because whilst it may 'appear' that things aren't how you wanted them at the present moment, it is important that you don't bring that into your vibration.

Keep your alignment on the things that you want and that feel good so that you are resonating from them and attracting them.  Allow the physical to respond, don't prejudge it too early.  It's never about what 'is' (unless you are wanting to vibrate it), it's about what you are choosing to vibrate and attract more of.  Let your feelings be your indicator of your vibration and let the Universe do the rest.

                              

 

Abraham on Manifesting a House using Law of Attraction

Thanks to Nina Ferrell for letting me know about these audios

Abraham on Manifesting a House, part 1

Abraham on Manifesting a House, part 2

                              

The Vibration of Love - Love quotes

Love and Appreciation are amongst the highest vibrations and when you are vibrating from them you are attracting the things you are wanting and more of the same, plus it FEELS GOOD!
The underlying essence in the quotes below is Love....

To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven....Karen Sunde

Love is not a matter of what happens in life.
It's a matter of what's happening in your heart....Ken Keyes

In real love you want the other person's good.
In romantic love, you want the other person....Margaret Anderson

The beginning of love is at the end
of resistance....Danielle Light

Dance like no one's watching,
Love like you'll never be hurt,
Sing like no one's listening,
Live like it's heaven on earth....William Purky

Love is not a matter of counting the years --
it's making the years count....Wolfman Jack Smith

Love creates an "us" without
destroying a "me"....Unknown

Do you want to know a good way to fall in love?
Just associate all your pleasant experiences with someone,
and disassociate from all the unpleasant ones....Richard Bandler (co-developer of NLP)

The best proof of love is trust....Dr. Joyce Brothers

Love is friendship set to music....Pollock

Love is, above all, the gift of oneself....Jean Anouilh

I love you, not because you are perfect,
But because you are so perfect for me....Unknown

You can't force someone to love you; all you can do is
become someone who can be loved; the rest is up to them....Unknown

Love simply cannot spring up without that self-surrender
to each other. If either withholds the self,
love cannot exist....Dr. E. Stanley Jones

True love stories never have endings....Unknown

We waste time looking for the perfect lover,
instead of creating the perfect love....Tom Robbins

The greatest happiness of life is the conviction
that we are loved - loved for ourselves, or rather,
loved in spite of ourselves....Victor Hugo

Time is too slow for those who wait,
too swift for those who fear,
too long for those who grieve,
too short for those who rejoice,
but for those who love,
time is eternity....Henry Van Dyke

Love is a canvas furnished by Nature
and embroidered by imagination....Voltaire

Where there is great love there are
always miracles....Willa Cather

Who travels for love finds a thousand
miles not longer than one....Japanese Proverb

To love and be loved is to feel the
sun from both sides....David Viscott

Love is an energy - it can neither be created
nor destroyed. It just is and always will be,
giving meaning to life and direction to goodness...
Love will never die....Bryce Courtney

Love talked about is easily turned aside,
but love demonstrated is irresistible....Stan Mooneyham

Immature love says: "I love you because I need you."
Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."....Erich Fromm

Love has nothing to do with what you are
expecting to get -- only with what you are
expecting to give -- which is everything....Katherine Hepburn

Love is the triumph of imagination
over intelligence....H.L. Mencken

Falling in love consists merely in uncorking the
imagination and bottling the common-sense....Helen Rowland

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities
or pride; so I love you because I knew no other
way than this, where 'I' does not exist, nor 'you'.
So close that your hand on my chest is my hand, so
close that your eyes close as I fall asleep....Pablo Neruda

To love without expected return on my investment
frees me to love with purity of heart, mind and soul...
I am not distracted by selfish motive or disappointed
by insensitivity...I am free to love...just love....L. Hodge

Once you have learned to love,
You will have learned to live....Unknown

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.....

                              

 

You have created nothing for yourself you cannot handle...

Realise you have created nothing for yourself that you cannot handle (despite how it may seem)
It's just sometimes it appears a struggle in the interim until you get to that realisation ;)
And then you have a new platform to create something else from...

                              

 

Which Thought Feels Better? A simple way to getting what you want

Decide on an area of your life you'd like to work with or something you would like

1 - Write five thoughts about it

2 - Determine if amongst those 5 thoughts there are thoughts that feel better than your current thoughts on the subject (use your feelings as your guide), if not then write 5 more thoughts, repeat until you have a thought or thoughts that feel better

3 - Replace your current thoughts with the thought or thoughts that feel better/best, make that your way of thinking (practice it, mentally rehearse it if need be), and don't contradict it with what you used to think

4 - Repeat from step 1, until...

5 - You have what you want

By doing this process you will always be thinking and feeling better and better thoughts:
-The better it feels the more aligned you are to what you want
-The more aligned you are to what you want the closer it is...
...and it manifests on the physical level

 

-You feelings are telling you how close you are to what you want, they are your guidance from the Universe, God, Source, Higher Self, whatever you want to call it

-When you access a better feeling thought it opens up other thoughts that weren't previously accessible to you, including ideas, thoughts and inspired actions.  From where you are initially you do not have access to where you will end up as vibrationally it is too far, but by repeating from your new perspective each time you have access to new thoughts and feelings that get you vibrationally where you want to be.  Your physical experience is a manifestation of your vibration

-From the new feeling place you are immeasurably closer to what you want than you would have been by 'action steps'

-The Universe is not an action one but a vibrational one, by doing the above you are getting closer to what you want far more quickly than you would by action alone, you will have ideas that get you closer, you'll be in the right time/right place, experience synchronicities, etc, there will be an almost seemingly magical unfolding

                              

 

Perfection is ok....

This was an interaction I was having with Xio (who you will have seen comment on posts on here) on a thread on the Universal Law of Attraction group on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?topic=5693&post=30159&uid=9150258418#post30159) about how she used to go for things that were 'perfect', eg if she was arranging a party then having perfect food, perfect people, the perfect place etc, whereas nowadays she is more focused on 'softer' qualities such as everybody being happy and enjoying the party.

I thought I would add some thoughts regarding 'perfection'...

Yes, what I've found is that having 'perfect' goals and striving for things of a high degree is absolutely fine and a wonderful way to KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT, and then being in the moment and enjoying the PROCESS and focusing on the CREATION and on the JOY in the moment

It is absolutely fine to be bold to go for what you really want (there is energy and flow in boldness, than in being timid), whatever it is, even if it is, in your current perception, 'perfect', you are using that label to clarify and define what you want, and then it's about why you want it, the emotions, the essences (the qualities of what you want, the way it makes you feel etc) and letting go of any labels about 'perfection' (because the Universe doesn't have such labels, you Ask and it Gives) and focus on the EXPERIENCE of what you want

What you want are your goals to matter so much and more and more so that more and more energy flows, the more desire the more energy flow, but you don't want them to matter SO MUCH that you are 'attached' to them (and not 'allowing' them) that you pinch the energy off

'Perfection' as with many other concepts is a label, and you can determine whether it is useful to you or not by how it feels, and using your feelings as your guidance you can use it in the best way for you, to inspire and create great things (than to use it to beat oneself up lol), as with anything it has great potential to think in great ways and flow wonderful things to you

Follow up from Xio:
When I ask I want to do things or have things in perfect way, that will depend on how I feel or how my vibration is about it? ...Like for example...Having a perfect profession, perfect soulmate, perfect house, perfect family…I really want to have them in perfect way and of course feel happy about having them… When I ask for something I always say. “ I want to have this but I want You help me to pick what is the best for me”
Am I doing it right?

Yes, that's right it's about how you feel and your vibration about it

Oftentimes when people set goals they say they want them a 'certain way', that 'it has to be like this otherwise I won't be happy', and that could include 'perfect' or not, but when people from their 'humanity' are saying that 'it has to be like this', they are not allowing their divinity - or the Universe (or God or Source or Higher Self or whatever) - to create for them as it may have so many many many other possibilities that are available, but people can limit by saying 'I want it THIS way'. Let go, and trust, and line up and feel what you want so you don't notice that currently, in your physical perception, it's not here on the physical although on many other levels it is already here and has always been here

                              

 

Can I Create for Someone I Love using the Law of Attraction?

Hi there Hemal...

How have you been??
I'd appreciate your guidance....

Me & My husband are currently in The Philippines...but my husband is looking out for better prospects and to move most probably to a different country..... he has spread the word around but nothing has materialised.

How can I be of help in requesting this from The Universe, Or is it that it's him who needs to make the request? If so, how do we do it.... don't know why but i suddenly feel like i don't know what to do?

Please advise & guide.
Thanking you in advance.

Warm Regards,
K

You cannot create in another's experience, but you can inspire their own alignment
You cannot create in in another's experience (nor can they in yours) as everyone's experience is sovereign but you can, through your own alignment, inspire others to their connection and alignment.  When you are connected through good feeling thoughts you can powerfully and easily and naturally inspire others, you will say the things that are important for them depending on their own vibration.

See things how you would like them to be, play with imagery (more on that in a moment), play games (/processes) such that the desired outcome has already happened and you are FEELING from that place.

As this is your husband you can do lovely games together if you choose (see below).  You mentioned 'request', it does not need to be a formal 'request', any requesting or asking you ever do with the Universe is through your vibration.  Hence you are practicing thoughts and feelings of how you want things to be so that you are a vibrational match to it, and the universe always delivers vibrational match, it always gives you more of the same.

Ways you can practice the thoughts for 'better prospects'
First of all define what 'better prospects' means.  What specifically does that mean?  What are the traits and qualities of that?  How would you know when you have it?  And then once you are specific with it, HOW WOULD IT FEEL?
List out the emotions ('essences') and practice experiencing them

So for example you might say being in a certain location or having a certain salary, so how would that feel?  The key thing is to tap into that vibration and live from it so that your external reality matches it.  You have to BE what you want to see

So with what you want together you could talk about how it will be when you have it.  What would you be doing?  How would you be living?  Where would you be going?  What would your lifestyle be?  Your husband could say how he is enjoying his work and what he is doing, and the key thing is he is FEELING from that place.  So he's not just 'talking' about it but experiencing it.  You can talk about a chocolate cake or you can experience it   :)  (the key is to talk about it as if you are experiencing it)

And when he is talking about it, if he isn't experiencing it then find out what is missing for him to add that into what he is envisioning, add as many feel good qualities to what is being thought about, the most important thing is how it feels rather than what you think or believe about it, for if you keep practising those feelings your reality will match them anyway.  Whereas if you impose upon your envisioning what you think reality is you may not be allowing yourself to feel as many of the good things that you can.

Creating a Magical Creation Box or Wallet
You can also collect items that signify or symbolise how things will be, so it could be a certain paycheque, or it could be a certain location, a certain type of job - so you can have pictures or items that symbolise these things and put them in a box or a folder or wallet.  You could create mock paycheques or bank statements and put them in there as well as certain things that symbolise your lifestyle.

This is the key thing here, oftentimes when people are determining things related to work or money oftentimes it is useful to ask what it will be for.  Money in and of itself is as powerful as the thing someone believes they can get with it (there is more about Money and essences in this article - Manifesting Money with the Abundance in your Life Right now).  When they tap into the feelings or the essences of these things there is far more emotional power, the vibration is stronger, the pull is stronger and things happen far more quickly.  Work on whatever feels the most powerful even if it means thinking thoughts outside of the work context, when you work on feeling thoughts they affect your general vibration and you will tend to attract other good things too

                              

 

"10 Thoughts on Abundance" is a featured article in the latest Law of Attraction Carnival

My 10 Thoughts on Abundance article has been featured in the Law of Attraction Carnival on Money & Abundance at Ellie Walsh's Living the Law of Attraction blog, you can check out some other articles on the topic there also
 

                              

 

Does wanting more Abundance mean I'm lacking it?

"If I say I am abundance and then in the same breath say I want more abundance do I not imply that there is a 'dearth' of abundance in me?"

REPLY:
It depends on your vibration about it (you'll know that by how it feels, whether exciting or 'not good')

Sometimes if something feels uncomfortable then it can imply that on some level you are not focusing on the abundance of it but the lack of it.  The uncomfortable feeling is an indicator of not being detached (or allowing) what you want as well as you can.  Look to soothe any resistance or attachment around it (see other posts on this blog, and in future there will be more on this also), focus on the aspects of what you like about what you want, than any lack of it in your present reality.  For example if it is money related focus on the things the money will get you and how they feel...milk those thoughts for their emotional (/vibrational) value, rather than thinking about what isn't happening in the present reality.  You can focus on 'what-is' (eg any lack in the present moment) and create more of it, or use your imagination and create what you want through that, it does not make a difference, your point of attraction is in your Now moment and it is your choice as a deliberate creator what you want to emit vibrationally, so to speak.

One way is to focus on the abundance already around you ("I appreciate the sun", "That I can breathe", "That I have the people I have in my life", etc), start with things you know you appreciate (than something you're not convinced about and 'trying' for - because that will be its own vibration),  let that awareness expand as your focus on it causes your appreciation of it to expand further.

The way to attract anything - including abundance - is through your focus on it.  It doesn't have to be the specific thing necessarily but by being a vibrational match of it.  The things you think and feel - the specific things - are essentially metaphors and tools for lining up with the vibration.  Through your vibrational focus on something you allow it to expand further, and of course also by keeping thoughts off the 'perceived' lack of it, otherwise one can be 'short circuiting' the good vibrational work they are doing.
It's always about 'perceived' as everything you want is already around you, it's about letting it in