MANIFESTING & LAW OF ATTRACTION

Manifesting & Law of Attraction 101

Hemal Radia 2008

1. You’re allowed to want what you want, your desires are the universe’s too, it manifests THROUGH you
2. Every desire has the mechanics (‘How’) of it’s fulfilment, just like in every seed there is a tree, the mechanics are in the how
3. The Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the universe, many other laws are corollaries from it
4. When you launch a desire, your job is to get up to speed with it, by lining up to it vibrationally
5. You line up to a desire by lining your beliefs (thoughts, emotions etc) up with it
6. When you are lined up the universe will orchestrate the synchronicities and the ‘How’ for the attainment of what you want
7. Focus on the energy flow than the goal.  Use your goals and desires to flow energy.  Want them.  Want them very much.  But not so much that you pinch the energy flow (i.e. be allowing, be detached)
8. Allowing is when you are not resisting, your thoughts are lined up and allowing what you want than resisting or thinking about something contradictory to what you want
9. If you focus on what-is you’ll get more of the same


10. Use your imagination and creativity to think of scenarios of what you want
11. It need only take a thought to start in the direction of what you want.  You don’t have to be fully blown vibrationally lined up immediately.  You just need to take a thought...
12. ...holding a thought for at least 17 seconds, without contradicting it, will attract another thought.  Holding for 34 seconds will attract another thought.  51 seconds, another thought...
13. ...once you have been focusing on something, without contradicting it, the momentum is in the that direction, and you will attract thoughts faster and faster, and you will feel this emotionally too...an improvement in feeling, depending on where you were on the vibrational scale
14. Once there is a momentum, you will vibrationally attract what you are a match to, it will manifest on a physical level
15. Manifesting can be in the form of ideas and inspiration you get, synchronicities, being at the right time/right place, etc.  The universe has an infinite number of ways, via the path of least resistance, in bringing you and your manifestation together. 
16. It has more possibilities than you could contemplate, and more ways of having things find their way to you than you could imagine
17. Your job is not to figure out the how, your job is to line up with what you want, the universe will bring what you want to you via the path of least resistance
18. The more you allow, the less ‘attached’ you are to it, the more ways/quickly it can come to you
19. When you do manifesting processes or visualising, see it as a game or process rather than ‘work’.  If you see it as ‘work’ (unless it feels good), it too will have a vibration.  You want to have the best feeling vibration you can, whether that be about what you want and/or the process you are using

    
    

    

20. Sometimes people get focused on the manifesting process than the goal itself, the goal is the energy flow of what you want.  They think the manifesting will solve anything and everything.  It can.  But ‘needing’ or ‘relying’ on it too implies a vibration of desperation, not one of faith and purity in the goal that you’re wanting
21. Whist you are learning or ‘getting better at’ manifesting (isn’t everyone), remember to play, it doesn’t matter how good or how ‘bad’ you are at it, your attention is on the 'playing'
    
22. Be passionate about being passionate, that’s the intention of your goals remember, what energy they flow for you
23. The universe loves you unconditionally.  It loves you so unconditionally that you don’t have to believe it loves you and it will still love you
24. You are inherently free in this universe.  You are free to think what you like and thus are free to set your vibrational tone to what you like
25. It’s always about the Now.  Anything you think about the present and future are all perceptions FROM THE NOW
26. Any emotion or anything you work with, get it to how you feel about it in the Now, that’s where the leverage is, rather than ‘I felt x’ about it, why are you mentioning it Now?  Why does it come up Now?  What is the emotion at Now?
27. When you think of your goals and you feel uncomfortable (you can replace that word with any negative emotion) it’s because there is discord between your desire and your belief, they are vibrationally apart at that moment
28. One way to deal with discord when thinking of your goals is to ‘soften’.  So rather than thinking of the £1million you will have, start with a concept that money goes where attention goes – i.e. something general which you know you are ok with believing now, and when that feels comfortable/familiar, build it up to something else, and so on to the goal....
29. Take steps, getting familiar each step of the way, make the emotional journey to the goal


30. The Emotional journey has more leverage and power than the Action journey
31. The Emotional journey is made by thinking/feeling FROM your goals, being familiar with what you want
32. Ensure your observations (your day to day thoughts/feelings) are in alignment with your goals.  Visualising money and being disappointed at the bill coming through your door is not necessarily being aligned.  Being grateful you have utilities and knowing there is a flow of money available is better
33. Upstream and downstream are relative statements.  They are relative based on where you are vibrationally.  Something downstream from one perspective (from one emotion on the emotional/vibrational scale) is upstream from another
34. Don’t impose your beliefs on another.  For someone who is angry is may be what they need to deal with fear or sadness and move up the vibrational scale (anger is more empowering, action oriented, fear and sadness are more passive and disempowered).  But when people tell them they shouldn’t be angry they get knocked back down to fear or sadness
35. Your greatest challenges are your greatest teachers.  There is great desire and value within contrast and resistance.  Contrast gives you the colours on your palette.  It does not have to be ‘negative’ necessarily, contrast means variety.  When there is variety and choices, preferences are born from them, and from your preferences you have your desires which you line up to
36. Resistance implies something is important to you.  If you didn't care about something on some level why would you have resistance about it...
37. You can imagine anything you like.  Again, there is total freedom
38. The processes and games are there to get you to think in certain directions and to line up your vibration
39. You communicate with the rest of the universe (which is a vibrational universe) through your vibration. When you say words to someone they will mean one thing as compared to another when your vibration is different

    
     

40. Strong desire manifests your goals more quickly, 'allowing' strong desire is very attractive
41. Appreciation is the closest vibration to You
42. You can start with appreciating anything (even this article! Lol), and as you focus on the appreciation another thought will come along that matches, it, and another, and another, and so on....
43. Asking yourself ‘Why’ you want something can soften it, the reasons and the motivation and the feel good soften any resistance to it and Allow
44. There is no destiny and fate other than your beliefs about it, which lead you to offer or not offer a vibration about certain things.  For example, if you believe something is your destiny your vibration will be stronger about it, if you believe it’s not meant to be you may not offer a vibration about it, and perhaps instead on other things
45. You need 51% momentum towards your goal to continue in that direction, keeping your attention on that, without contradiction, will continue it
46. The universe is inherently positive.  Even at it being neutral, it still offers you a choice (to be positive or negative), which suggests even ‘neutral’ is oriented towards the positive
47. If you’re feeling negative emotions and not able to ‘feel good’ or ‘feel better’, work on feeling ‘less bad’ and so on and go from there
48. Energy flows when you are expansive with your thoughts, that’s what you use your imagination for.  The processes and games are structures to use to enable this, but you don’t ‘need’ anything other than your imagination and creativity and an attitude to play, everything can come from that
49. If there is discord to a goal, consider thinking a thought that is vibrationally close to where you are.  If you do not find it easy to appreciate something, start with appreciating something you know you can and build from there


50. Practice the vibration of what you want so it feels familiar, so it’s the next logical step.  Make this your dominant vibration on the subject
51. The key thing is your attention and your focus (i.e. your vibration).  If you do not believe something is easy or possible, start by just ‘playing’ with the thoughts of it being possible, use frames such as ‘What if...’ and ‘Wouldn’t it be nice if....’ amongst others, and as you play with those thoughts they’ll become more familiar and more believable
52. Manifesting $10 and $10k or more are just as easy, just like a castle and a button.  Whether you have your beliefs to believe that is up to you, it starts with entertaining the possibility that it IS
53. Writing is a good focuser of energy, you see your words, listen to your self talk, and feel the writing of the words, it involves your neurology
54. Lining up is about closing the gap between your desires and beliefs
55. It’s not about ‘working hard’ or ‘pushing it’.  Realising the stream is infinite, and you start one thought at a time, know the momentum quickens easily and naturally so long as you don’t contradict it.  ‘Working hard’ or ‘Pushing it’ can imply resistance, in ‘needing’ to do that, but they can also imply high desire too
56. So it’s not about ‘pushing’ to manifest faster or speed up manifesting, it’s about lining up and allowing the Stream, the Stream is infinite, it’s as fast as you allow it to go, but how much are you allowing...
57. Write out your thoughts on a subject, then note down which ones feel what (what emotions) and which feel better.  And focus on those for a while (at least 17 seconds), and as you let them affect your vibration see what other thoughts come up now from this new vibrational range.  This is a good way of having a connection with your thoughts, and being sensitive to them in how they feel
58. Always be working towards better feeling thoughts...
59. ...and they will lead to more

    
     

60. Dealing with clutter is another way of reducing resistance
61. Being general and ‘vague’ in statements initially can be a good way to soften what you want (less resistance), and then get more and more specific, there is power in the specificity
62. It’s not necessarily about the precise goal you are visualising or thinking of, thinking of it that gets you in the vibrational frequency of it and you being open to attracting it or something even better
63. Everything you experience is a vibrational match
64. To let go of something, take your attention away from it.  Something only lingers if your attention is on it (or a vibrational match to thoughts like it) on some level
65. Energy flows where attention goes
66. If you believe in God, the Universe, or whatever, have communication about what you want.  Whether you believe in that divinity or the one within you does not matter, so long as you are having your vibration on the things you want so you allow them into your life
67. All possibilities and parallel realities are available
68. You change parallel realities by your thoughts and intention (vibration)
69. It’s about probabilities, as you change your vibration to something you are enabling the probabilities of it happening


70. When you focus on the positive aspects of something or someone you attract either more people of the same, or you draw those positive aspects from the people already around you
71. It’s not about money, it’s about alignment.  I was talking to someone last night about the Jaguar and he went onto the conversation of money.  I told him everything is about lining up the energy to what you want, it will knock down the door to get to you, whether you have millions to your name or pennies
72. Think about what you want.  Write 20 things that you like about it (you can extend this to 50 or 100 things or more).  You are creating a positive vibration to what you want
73. Remember to milk your thoughts.  So don’t just think of what you want, but think of it in a way that feels really good.  If you think of what you want and there’s not much emotion to it, it suggests not a lot of desire (or resistance).  Find aspects about it you really like.  Think of it in different ways.  Think how you can extend this to feel even better about it.  Perhaps tweak the goal so it feels better, or find the aspects within it that drive you wild
74. Follow your joy....
75. ..you are tapping into the big picture that way.  You may think you have a rational/logical plan, but following your joy (which is your connection to infinite intelligence) is telling the shortest route to where you want to be.  It knows what lies ahead and to avoid the dead ends and where the short cuts are
76. It’s okay to follow your joy
77. Everything is about perspective.  The only reason you feel (negative) emotions about something is because of the perspective, and you’re not seeing all the other perspectives yet
78. It’s easier to change your perspective than reality
79. Changing your perspective will change your reality

    
     

80. Make a list of the things you’re not complete on, whether it be with other people, things you haven’t finished or things you said you’d do.  You don’t have to complete them, just get at peace with them.  Incomplete things can act as resistance
81. ‘Willingness’ implies allowing.  Not being willing to do something suggests an aspect of resistance possibly
82. Attaining your goals is about summoning the energy (from your desires, the stronger the desire the stronger the summoning) and allowing (closing the gap between desires and beliefs)
83. You can bridge or chain to what you want.  So if you want to think something but it feels further away, you can create intermediate thoughts to think and bridge and chain to it, and practice it
84. Create scenarios and frames for yourself to play games.  If you want more money imagine having a £100 or £1000 (or $ ;) ) in your wallet and practice spending it.  Or imagine an unlimited credit card.  Or imagine having whichever car keys you like in your pocket.  The idea is to practice experiencing having what you want, whether it be purchasing something that you want or doing something that you want, EXPERIENCE the FEELings, and practice them.  It doesn’t matter what you have or what amount (adjust the amount if it is financial so it feels best, keep increasing it for example), the most important thing are the feelings you experience. 
85. It’s never about achieving a goal, because from that goal will be a vantage point for more goals, it’s a never-ending expansion, a never-ending journey, that’s what life is about and the eternal expansion of the universe.  So you’ll never ‘have it’, it’s about being it and having it, the process of it.  (The doing will be a consequence of those)
86. You can find photos and pictures of what you want and put them up on walls, on the desktop on your computer, bank statements, cheques (i.e. of amounts you want to have in your bank or receive) etc
87. The universe is abundant, it has more than enough (and even more still) for every single person on this planet and more, many times over, infinitely.  In fact it is the ASKING and receiving that causes the expansion in the universe.  It’s not a case of how much of the pie can I get (scarcity), but how my intentions make the pie bigger (for everyone) and thus me have more in the process too (abundance)
88. The universe can be as abundant or as scarce as you let it be, which inherently implies it is abundant
89. What you experience in life is a REFLECTION of your thoughts.  Don’t work on the reflection with your actions, work on your thoughts and your intention, there is greater leverage in working on it from there


90. The situations and circumstances in your life do not matter, what you offer vibrationally does, as one will follow the other
91. Setting a time or deadline on goals is a way of focusing the energy, i.e. for some people the goal can appear more real (which can mean feel better), but don’t use time to beat yourself up or have resistance about it, your manifestation of your goal is based on your vibration to it, not that you impose a time limit on it.  There is no time in the universe’s concept, it works on the level of vibration.  You would only use time if it helps you lining up your vibration (and feeling good)
92. Just as the universe is a system orchestrating itself, so is your body, with every cell responding to your vibration.  When you set your vibrational tone, every cell responds to it
93. The universe is holographic, every element contains the larger whole within it
94. Affirmations work when they impact your vibration.  You can keep reaching for ‘better feeling’ affirmations.  When you reach a certain level you may want to strive further so your thoughts and you, and the feelings you flow, are always expanding.  When you expand, you open up vibrational frequencies to think/feel from, enabling you to expand further
95. When you are lined up and feeling good people will love being around you, because you are also enabling their connection too
96. You cannot create in another’s reality and nor them in yours, but you can be affected in your creation by having your attention on them than on your own inner guidance and connection
97. You have more power and influence in your connection than millions, including world leaders, in their disconnection and trying to create through action
98. Unconditional love is just that, no conditions, no strings.  With it you are allowing them (others)/it (goals) to be who they are, and there is no resistance
99. Your body is not a vessel for your spirit, your spirit is a vessel for your body  ;) 
100. Abundance is not just money, abundance is much more than that.  If you think of it only as money you limit the ways abundance can get to you
101. You already have everything you desire.  It’s all around you, you just have to let it in

 

 

When you have Dreams and you feel your day to day reality is not in line with them

Kim: I have one primary goal that I want and I have given a lot thought about it and really love the feeling of having it, but my day-to-day work and my thoughts of work hinder me occasionally and I end up flowing upstream with thoughts. Is there a way to stay tuned in and connected all the time, no matter what?

In terms of day to day works thoughts, my thinking is along the lines of no matter how hard people may try to find good feeling places while at their day to day job, it is really hard to stay in a good mood if 1) you are not happy with your circumstances or 2) people around you are only being disruptive and are negative in their outlook. This is why I asked how can one stay connected nearly all the time and just go with the feeling of allowing.

The ‘day to day’ work is not so much an issue or doesn’t have to create discord in you, in fact you could enjoy it, when you think it’s likely not to be around forever as you’re on your way to ‘better things’ if that thought feels better to you.

The Value of Resistance and Contrast

So you are asking if there is a way to stay tuned in and connected all the time, no matter what.  I would presume that to mean not having resistance or ‘contrast’.  Realise that resistance and contrast serve functions in the manifesting process, they enable you to make preferences and choices, they fire ‘rockets of desire’, and then you line up to them.  And you have manifestations, and from those new perspectives (and contrast) you have new preferences and choices.

I’m presuming that it’s not necessarily about staying connected ‘all the time’ but about lining up and staying connected so you can manifest what you want, so let’s work with that.

Making Peace with the Present

You know that whilst you have discord about where you are currently you are not quickly getting close to where you want to be, the solution is to make peace with where you are at. 

You mention the circumstances and the people ‘disruptive and negative in their outlook’, realise that circumstances are a mirror of the vibration that has been given off and the sooner attention is put onto something else the sooner you can let new things in.  I’ll use the diagram from the previous post which illustrates this

So, let’s sooth the vibration of where things have been.
You may have thoughts around the current work such as ‘Oh, you’re getting in the way of my dreams’, ‘As soon as you go I can get on with my primary goal and dreams’ or ‘The people here are just pulling me back’ or ‘The people here are so disruptive’.  Whilst those thoughts can be understandable in the environment, you want to get at peace with that.  Because whilst your observations are on that, you’ll see more and more evidence of it and not allow evidence of you being close to all the things that you DO want.

Can you find something about your work that you can appreciate, or like?  Is there something that you ‘might’ appreciate?  Did the work come to you at a time when you needed it?  Or has helped you to pay the bills?  Realise, in your whole evolution, this work came to you at a time when it was a vibrational match for you.  You may not enjoy it or love it, and that’s ok, but you can be thankful (and I'm not suggesting you're not).  Kind of like friends, who have known each other a while and both have evolved in their own ways and it is time to move on, and there’s no point holding grudges or ‘bad vibes’ about it.  Make peace with the current work.  If you are able to focus on thoughts about it that you appreciate then all the better.

You might say ‘How can I get at peace with it when I'm still in it?’  You make peace with it, but also realise that for wherever you want to be going, you need to make the emotional journey first, so that it can be reflected in the circumstances you experience.  The only reason this job is still around and not something else is you are a closer match to this through your attention at this moment in time.

Feeling better about the Present

If there are consistent things that keep coming up in your day to day reality that don't feel good then:

-List them, use them to pivot to what does feel good.  Eg ‘The people I work with are very negative’, pivot it to ‘I’m going to have people around me who are inspirational and I feel energised around’ and then when that’s comfortable then into present tense such as ‘I have fantastic people around me who all contribute so positively to my life’

-You can work on finding aspects that you appreciate about those things or other things, or you could make humour of it

Realise that your present moment is on a continuum, there are things ‘better’ than it and there are things ‘worse’ than it.  Which you compare it to will determine how you feel about where you are currently.  It’s all about using the comparisons and thoughts to feel good right now

-You could for example play a game that every hour (or whatever time frame) you have to find one unique thing in your day to day work that you like or appreciate.

-You could use the future processes I mention in this post where you go out to the future and you look back to now from it, realising that you GOT what you wanted, you GOT your primary goal, and where you are now was a piece in the whole orchestration of it

When you are feeling good and in the moment (and acting from joy) you’re not counting the moments, you’re not hoping or working out how soon you can have your other goals, because you are enjoying the present moment, and ironically you tend to do better and attract what you want quickly anyway.

Using your Desire to Feel Good

So let’s move onto the second part, which is perhaps more directly related to what you asked, about feeling good.  You can find things in the present work that feel good, or you can find things in your primary goal that feel good (which you are) or you can find thoughts in anything else that feel good, but just not contradict it with your thoughts about the present work, that seems to be the key in what you’re asking.  If you feel good and don’t contradict it you’ll get what you want.

If you’re getting ‘sucked’ into not feeling good from the ‘day to day work’ and you feel good about your primary goal, then practice that vibration further and further.  If your vibration is higher about it then the day to day work vibration may not have the same impact.  The way to stay connected more of the time is to practice the vibration of what you want, and as you do that it becomes more and more familiar and more ‘normal’...in fact more ‘day to day’ shall we say ;)  and the momentum (and Law of Attraction) is very firmly in that direction.  If your dominant thoughts are in a direction about what you want then that’s where the momentum is.

Spend more time focusing on what you like about it, the best aspects of it, how you’d like it to turn out, etc.  How would it feel to be in your life right now?  You will find as you have that vibration around you more and more you will notice things around you change, things in your day to day work will be different.  But, your focus is on you feeling good, not looking at the external environment for reference.  The manifestation could be close to happening - often 99% of the work is done before you see it on the physical - and by you checking for it you’re bringing that into your vibration, if there is doubt or uncertainty that comes into it, and it’s not helpful.  Your attention should be on your own thoughts and feelings about what you want than looking at others for reference, impose your intent [on the environment] through your vibration than the other way around.

 

 

Using Law of Attraction in a Business Turnaround

Harvey: I run a loan business but I have neglected its internal working in the last two months, this could be out of apathy or laziness but perhaps also my souls is not in the business. I am working with a business coach and he wants to introduce some interesting ideas but what he may not realise is that I am not strong enough to help implement and monitor the ideas. I have not recruited well I think in the past year and I have two girls working for me who may not be right for the job or I just have not trained and lead them well.
Whilst I am hesitant to give the business up I am thinking more about my mental and spiritual wellbeing which I think needs attention at the moment due to years of neglect. I can be a very happy or fearful person and I have a lot untapped and unexplored energy. I don't know how long i can put my spiritual quest off, understanding my mind and developing my creative and light side.
It's a big dilemma but i am getting a little desperate although of course I am still coping although waking up early most days and this makes me tired of course. I perhaps need to find good staff or maybe a good manager to run my company whilst I go off and explore, maybe India for example. However the business is quite reliant on me at the moment.
What do you think?
Thanks for your attention and help!!

Not wanting to be around something because there is resistance towards it

...but I have neglected its internal working in the last two months , this could be out of apathy or laziness...

Well this is understandable, when one is feeling ‘resistance’ towards something they won’t feel inclined or excited about dealing with it or being around it as much, whether it is a job, business, relationship, health etc.  Resistance is when you are thinking about something that you don’t want (eg something you are fearful of, or just a thought contradicting something that you want) and through that thinking/feeling you are ‘resisting’ the natural flow that puts you in alignment with the big picture and the infinite resources to where you DO want to go.  A person can tell when they are resisting or allowing by how they feel, resisting will have negative emotion associated - due to the discord between your desire and your belief – where you want to be and where you are - and allowing will tend to feel good, it could be feelings of excitement, joy, love and being thrilled as to what you will do with the fresh canvas of life upon you each day.  Feeling good and bad is a continuum, an emotional and vibrational continuum, and you attract things that are a match to the vibration signal you are giving.

...but perhaps also my souls is not in the business...

We’ll work on this a little later in the piece.  At some point the business did come forth from some creative process as it wouldn’t have existed otherwise.  You can reconnect your ‘soul’ or ‘heart’ to it through your emotions, more on this later.

When you line yourself up you attract those in harmony with your vision, or vision from those already around you

...I have not recruited well i think in the past year and i have two girls working for me who may not be right for the job or i just have not trained and lead them well...

When you reconnect yourself vibrationally to whatever it is you do, you will attract the right people to the job or draw those aspects from those people who are already around and want to be a match to it too.  It’s like when someone is in a relationship and they are considering moving on because of certain traits in their partner.  The best way is to be at peace with those traits and to be at peace about the whole thing otherwise if your focus is on something that you don't like, your vibration will be active about it, and you will tend to attract those traits in the next partner also or in others around you, you attract more of the same through your focus, in all things.  What you might find is WHEN you are at peace with it and are focusing on what you LIKE about your current partner, you will attract those aspects from your current partner (and others around you), because you’re focusing on that and not being distracted by the things you didn’t like.  Your energy and attention is on the things that you DO like.  Energy flows where attention goes.

All possibilities exist

Whilst i am hesitant to give the business up i am thinking more about my mental and spiritual well being which i think needs attention at the moment due to years of neglect...

Consider a scenario where you can have the business AND your mental and spiritual wellbeing, when you are lined up (desire and belief are in alignment - i.e. what you want and what you believe; and you feel good as a consequence) you can do anything and you have the energy and excitement for it.  Or, you can decide that you just want to focus on certain aspects in your life (such as spiritual), and that is your choice, I’m just highlighting that all choices exist based on whatever choices you make.

There is Harmony inherent in every conflict

...I can be a very happy or fearful person and i have a lot untapped and unexplored energy. I don't know how long I can put my spiritual quest off, understanding my mind and developing my creative and light side.
it's a big dilemma...

It sounds like someone who has a lot of desires and a lot of things they want to get done but one who isn’t in line with them yet or is experiencing conflicts in doing them.  For example ‘I’d like to do x, but I can’t because of y’ (and the word ‘dilemma’ confirms this).  You can have it all if you are lined up to it, or you can struggle with aspects of it as you move towards some things but your attention is on others elsewhere and there is a conflict, you feel like you are being 'torn'.

So let's communicate with the aspects, and work on them lining up so they are in harmony...

Communicate with your desire for your spiritual development, identify what it is, what it’s intentions are, goals are, what it wants to accomplish/achieve.  You could imagine it sitting in front of you, or as a part sitting on your open palm, or imagine it as whatever you like as you communicate with it.  And in the same way communicate with that aspect of you that wants your business to work, perhaps on your other palm.  What are its outcomes?  What does it want to accomplish?  The initial answer might be something like some sort of relief from the recent pressure or tension.  Then ask what’s its long term vision or intention.  Is it to thrive?  Grow?  What is it you want to experience from the business?  Everything we experience in life is a metaphor for something we want to experience, an essence, some intention or outcome or purpose, what is the business’ intention for you?  What does it achieve for you?

Now realise that the two intentions (spiritual and business in this case) won’t achieve anything whilst they are in conflict.  As one strives forward the other will pull it back because it's in conflict and doesn't feel it can get what it wants.  In harmony they provide synergy to each other and to the rest of you.  And harmony is just a matter of perspective and intent.

Realise THEY BOTH HAVE THE SAME HIGHER INTENTION FOR YOU, whatever that is, whether it be your wellbeing, growth, thriving.  Every desire and essence within you came into you because it felt it could achieve what it came for, within you, else it would have gone elsewhere - Law of Attraction, like attracts like - so any time there is any conflict, it is important to remember that the two parts are in the same time space reality because they actually have a sameness on a deeper level - this is the same with ALL entities, people, countries, etc, if any are at conflict it's because they are focusing on their differences than on similarities and aspects with which they can grow together and in synergy.  The similarities and agreements could even be just on the level of existence, that they agree they are better off existing and not interfering with each other, even if they do nothing else, or better still in working together and sharing resources, each have something to offer the other.

So it's in realising that there IS a sameness that the two can line up, and with an intent not to be in conflict.  And it may just mean agreeing that if they don't have some sort of an agreement neither will achieve what they want (even if it's not to have a business and to focus on the spiritual), rather than nitpicking on the details.

How would you like things to be?

‘Lots of untapped and unexplored energy’ is good because it implies strong energy flow.  Strong energy is great when you are lined up to it, but when you’re not it can create quite a bit of discord as the discord indicates misalignment between your desires (summoning the energy) and your thoughts and beliefs (allowing the energy).  You might want something but if your focus is on something contradicting it then you get discord, and your emotions tell you when that is happening.  The type of emotion you experience will tell you the difference between the two as will the severity of the discord.
Some people will have little or not very strong desires and so when their thoughts don’t match up the discord (negative emotion) isn’t quite so prevalent.  However when they are lined up the flow isn’t quite as strong as someone who has strong desire and is lined up.

So I've explained many dynamics, I'm going to ask you to work with your thoughts.  I’m going to ask you to list out a few things, and it’s best for this process if you write these; writing focuses the energy, because your eyes are seeing what you’re doing,  your self-talk is focused on the words than on anything else, and you’re physically focused on writing; your whole neurology is involved.< /p>

If all possibilities were open to you, let’s say God (or the universe or whatever you want) sat next to you and said How would you like things to be, what would you say?  Make a list.  And write as much as you like.  And it can be as general or as specific as you like, the key thing is that it feels good.  It might help to start general and then go more specific, there's less resistance when something is general, it's 'softer', and you can get more and more specific.

Creating your Reality, rather than regurgitating what-is

Things can stagnate (relationships, job, health, businesses, etc) when they don’t go so well and we focus on 'what-is' – i.e. the present perceived reality, and because that’s where our focus is we create more of the same and more of the same and so on (see diagram below), the solution is to use your imagination and creativity and think and FEEL from it, it’s being a visionary not a ‘regurgitator’

When in relationships if people keep focusing on the problems things get worse and worse as they create more of the same, but if they focus on what they once loved about that person or what they love now, or WHAT THEY MIGHT LOVE about them - anything that feels good - that's what flows energy.  The key thing here is not what the reality is or what it was or might be, it’s that the thought feels good, and that’s what flows energy. All possibilities are open in the universe and the universe is abundant, it is rich and there is infinitely more potential than most people could contemplate, and you gain access through your feelings and the flow of energy and your imagination, there is infinitely more power in that than through actions or speech or other means. The universe is vibrational and you gain access to it through your connection with it vibrationally, your feelings, and your emotions are a guidance where you are relative to that

This gets you away from thinking how things have been or are (‘what-is’) and gets you to start thinking of WHAT YOU WANT, when you do that and let your thoughts focus on it more and more and more you flow the energy to it, you start getting ideas and you are lead to more thoughts of the same which lead to more ideas and inspiration.

You’re not trying to rationally solve the situation with it, you’re using your imagination to create the thoughts in your mind that feel good, they raise your vibration, from the new vibration you have possibilities open to you you didn’t have before.

Remember, the key is write things that feel good.  You might not find it easy at first because your mind has been focused on the situation at hand and you need to practice thinking of what you want.  So you could put softening statements at the start that pace where things have been so you can then lead on to the thoughts that feel good.  For example:

-Well, I’ve had this situation for a while and it’s felt uncomfortable but I’d like to solve it
-It’s not been easy in the past and I still get stuck, but I want to find something that moves this on
-There are more possibilities available than I might have thought
-I may not know for sure the infinite possibilities that the universe can show to me, but I’d like to find out...
-Out of all the things the universe can do, working with a business must be one of the easiest, relatively speaking
-There are many things I’d like, whether in this business or outside of it in my life
-My spiritual and mental wellbeing are important to me, and I can feel I have strong desires for them.  Strong desires are good
-I’d like my business in a place where it is taking care of itself and perhaps even growing and I’m spending my life doing the things I love, including doing the things I love about my business
And so on....

Tapping into what you loved about it in the first place

You may want to ask yourself, when you started the business what were the things you loved about it?  What inspired the creation of it?  If it was something like ‘money’ or ‘making ends meet’ that’s fine too, EVERYTHING HAS POSITIVE ASPECTS TO IT.  The universe is meaningless until you give it meaning and that shapes the reality you experience and it perpetuates until you change the meaning.  What can you appreciate about your business?

-It came to me at a time when I needed money, or making ends meet
-This business has been good to me over the years.  It may have had its challenges and may still do, but it’s something that has been good to me
-This business deserves better
-I know there is wisdom and guidance coming to me about how great this business can be
-This business has so much potential, it can go places, it can offer a lot of value

An analogy about reconnecting with what you loved about it in the first place

When people are in relationships what often happens is they fall in love and everything is wonderful (and they may or may not be aware of lovely synchronicities happening around them, as they’re most likely in a higher vibration) and they’re focusing on all the things they love about the other person.  And then they might notice one small aspect they don’t appreciate in the other.  And then they’ll ponder it, dwell on it.  And what happens if you dwell on something – anything, whether positive or negative?  By virtue of LOA it gets bigger.  And then it’s not so small, it gets bigger.  And they dwell on it.  And it gets bigger still.  Then they find they have arguments, and there is more tension around the place.  And then they find they almost can’t not get into an argument. 

This may be similar to your business where when you look around you see things that give you stress and tension.  The solution is to practice taking your attention off those things that do that, and practice your attention on things about it that feel good, it doesn’t matter what they are, anything.  That way you are ‘allowing’ and not ‘resisting’.  You could even focus on things outside of the business that feel good, the key thing is not to get into resistance about the business.  There could be 999 things wrong with the business but you could focus on one good feeling thought you have about it, and hold your attention to it (for at least 17 seconds) without contradicting it and another thought will join it.  And hold it for another 17 seconds and another thought will join that, and so on. And you build the momentum in a positive direction.  What will happen is you will start to feel more and more excited about your business, you’ll enjoy being there, you’ll enjoy doing more with it, you will have creativity and inspiration and you’ll be inspired to do things.  And your business will thrive.  Which will also mean you will feel even better about it, it perpetuates itself, but you use your imagination to get it going when initially things weren't how you wanted them.

You have all choices open to you

Having said all of the above, when you get to a place of inspiration you will also have the choice to move on from the business, and that is up to you.  But by getting yourself into a place of allowing you enable yourself to make the best choices, the wisdom and the guidance will flow to you, whether it be through ideas you get or through ‘coincidences’ or synchronistic experiences, for example you might see a newspaper article that mentions something or catch a TV programme or you might overhear a conversation which is just right for what you’re looking for.

Your vibration will determine the people you attract

You mentioned about attracting a manager or staff, when you are feeling good about your business you will attract better people in relation to your business than you would otherwise.  Remember, like attracts like.  If you are thinking of your business as a problem and it being difficult, you are likely to attract people that will think from a similar point of view, or have a similar vibration about it.  If you are excited about this opportunity you have, you will attract people with whom you can enthuse with.

If you keep thoughts of :
-Well, at the moment the business is not taking care of itself, but at some point I think it can
-With the business taking care of itself I’ll have so much time to myself, and the business can thrive too
-I know there are plenty of good people out there who can be very successful with business, and I know my business deserves that
-This can be such a win-win, I’ve created an opportunity here with my business for someone to come along and thrive with it, I can have all the time I want for myself, and my business is better through all of this too

Do you notice the improvement in feeling and perception?
And you have to practice these thoughts and live FROM them (not necessarily the ones I've listed but those that are relevant for you.)  You may not get a phone call the next minute (or you might!), but you will certainly feel better in thinking these thoughts and how you feel about your business will be better, and you can let what manifests in the physical take place.

Conclusion

Above I have mentioned quite a few approaches to this, but the key thing is to feel less and less bad about it, regardless of the presently perceived reality, and get onto feeling better and better.

One other note on this:
Oftentimes when you're coming to work with experiences from a place where things weren't positive you may initially be looking to get relief, in that initially it’ll be about feeling less worse, less stress etc, and as the 'negative' feelings get less and less you can focus on 'feeling better' and more and more positive emotions.  A lot of talk is made about 'feeling good' however sometimes when someone is feeling very negative they may not be able to contemplate such a thing as 'feeling good' and it can be about feeling 'less worse' and lessening those negative feelings and then getting onto positive feelings and amping them up, and feeling better and better.

 

 

More on 'How I Manifested my Car' post

Thank you to all of you who have been letting me know how much value you are finding in my words and in this blog, it's lovely to hear from you, thank you!

This is more on 'How I Manifested my Car'


Amie: Hi Hemal,

I read your blog on your Jag manifestation, which is great by the way, and wanted to ask how you feel now compared to how you felt knowing it was coming?

It's just my experience of the 'knowing' the car was coming was actually the best bit - it felt great - because the car had come in to my experience but I had no means of paying for it. I can look back now and identify that the' knowing' it was going to be mine was the most thrilling part. Because having it feels different, very good but different. That OMG this could be mine feeling is hilarious as you dare to imagine and pretend you are driving it. Would you agree from your experience?

Now I have it, it's like second nature, now I look at the Aston Martin DB9 and get excited!!

Hemal: Yep I know what you mean, it's the flowing of energy which is the important part, not the thing you're after, they're just kind of metaphors for you to flow energy towards lol

It's the moulding of the thought and the energy that's meant to be the fun part and the manifestation a consequence of it

Amie: Thanks for confirming what I felt into an even simpler and clearer understanding of this process!

 

 

Creating Realities - What are we responsible for?

To what degree are we impacting and influencing the creation of others' realities?  Are we creating our own reality, and therefore responsible only for what exists in our lives, or others too?

Where does our responsibly begin and end?

(the question was longer but I condensed it to the above, which sums it up)

REPLY:

The 'responsibility' begins and ends with yourself, and through that is your connection to everything and everyone else

"Are we are creating our own reality, and therefore responsible only for our view or perception of all that already exists in our lives?"

Yes, each person is experiencing from their point of Self, you cannot step into another's shoes or care for another totally, because it will always be THROUGH your point of Self, it will always be from that perspective, through the perspective that you have chose to come to experience as who you are.
Yes, we are responsible for our own experience as is everyone else, and those with matching vibrations come together to co-create. The vibrational universe takes care of the orchestration of who, what, where, when, how etc, you nor others do not need to think about that, you just need to focus on what's important to you and what you want to experience.
Essentially you write the play you want to experience and the universe will orchestrate the actors and parts within it. That's when synchronicities and the flow line up with you.

You cannot create in another's experience, and vice versa, however by thinking of another's experience you can affect your own connection to source, god, universe, whatever you want to call it, your ideal connection is with You, god, universe, etc, and THROUGH that connection you can positively impact others.

It is through your connection that others (who want to be a match to it) will be inspired, those seeking a teacher will attract you, those not seeking one you will not rendezvous with

Your responsibility is to yourself and your connection. If you were not to be a samaritan for someone, they will attract whatever they are a match to, i.e. the universe does not 'need' you or anyone to do anything, there are an abundance of people who'd show up even if you didn't - the universe IS abundant - based on what was being Asked by the vibration of the person asking. Your job is to follow your joy whatever it is. There is no limit to people willing to do things for others, but it is best done from a place of connection or joy, because when you're not, and you help another, you're not helping their connection to the resources available to them either

 

 

Synchronicities and being in the Flow by lining up with the Universe

This was a post I wrote in the 'Synchronicity and Being in the Flow' group (http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=6547252561 ) on Facebook, after an interaction with my friend Anima Blue who's the Admin for the group. She sent out a message to the group and in it she mentioned that she had come across the Law of Attraction before but it had never felt right for her until her and I interacted about it recently and she felt it was the right time for her to follow up on it. Here's my post:

Anima's message to the group yesterday made me think about what she said in terms of how she had come across Law of Attraction before but it hadn't felt right until her and I talked about it.

It's great she mentioned 'it didn't feel right' (not great because 'it didn't feel right' but because she was in tune with her feelings!) previously because your feelings are a guide as to what's right for you and what's not. If you tap into your feelings (which connect to the big picture, universe, god, whatever you want to call it) you can have no end of synchronicities and being in the flow. Oftentimes, before trusting their own feelings, people tend to look outside of themselves, and that's how they don't line up with the massive power just waiting to sweep them to where they want to go. There is no lack to the infinite stream just waiting to take you where you want to go, and it gets easier and easier when you are in the stream because your focus will be on your connection because the synchronicities happening all around will keep reminding you of it.

Anyway, back to the feeling thing again lol. Your emotions are an indicator to where you are vibrationally, and it's through your vibration you communicate to the rest of the universe. It's more powerful than any words you could say. When you follow your joy in the present moment (or as good as you can), what feels good, you are lining up with the orchestration happening around you, and 'the flow'

So going back to what Anima said, if something doesn't feel right, that's ok, know that there is no end to the universe's ability to find what's right for you, but it starts with you making a positive intention about it. If you focus on what you don't like and what's wrong you'll get more of the same. If you focus on what your positive intent is - I say intent because you might have something in front of you you feel isn't for you but you can have a positive intent about whatever you are looking for, regardless of the form you have in front of you currently - so you focus on what your (positively stated) intent is, without contradicting it, and the universe will match more for you, even if it's what you were previously looking at in a way that will feel good and be easy for you to let it in! ;)

 

 

Abraham Hicks group on Facebook surprised me!

On Sunday (Jan 20th), completely out of the blue, I received a message from Facebook saying I'd been made Officer (and Admin) on an Abraham Hicks group on there.  This had been done by the creator of the group, Nina Ferrell.  We had met online very recently and built up a lovely friendship, but I had not expected this lovely surprise! 
If you'd like to join the group you are welcome to go to
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=680128232

On Mon Jan 21st I sent the following message to the group:

Hi Everyone,

I thought I would write you a message and say hi and introduce myself! Some of you already know me and I've interacted with you.

I had a complete (and pleasant) surprise yesterday when out of the blue I received an email from Nina saying I'd been made Officer (and then Admin) on this group! I had not expected that at all, and I was honoured and very appreciative that it did (it was also my birthday too lol)

I'd just like to say feel free to contribute to this group, let us know what you like, what you want, and feel free to contribute with your thoughts and your experiences. There might be someone just waiting to hear experiences that you've had which might be perfect for them, WHEREVER you were at. So feel free to post on the forum...there's a saying....Ask and It Is Given... ;)....and we're not saying that we'd necessarily always have the answer, or that someone else might, but the clarity comes in the ASKING, and the answer can come from somewhere unexpected. A clarity can occur in formulating your question and a boldness from asking it.

I have a blog as of a few weeks ago so feel free to check it out (link below), and happy manifesting! If you're not getting the results you like then you have to ask yourself, with groups like this, are you Asking...? And lining up? This group can not only be a tool for you but your experiences as resources for others, whether you're completely new to this or have a bit more experience (or a lot more), you always have something of value to offer.

Best wishes,
Hemal
http://www.manifestingandloa.com

 

 

How I Manifested my Car by lining up to it Vibrationally

As some of you are aware I recently acquired a very lovely car which I absolutely adore.

This piece isn’t short, I’ve had quite a few requests from people for this post and I thought I’d add detail and you can take the best bits which are useful to where you're at

You close the gap vibrationally between where you are and with what you want
Although I’d been thinking about this type of car, a Jaguar, for a while, I think the main movement has been recently because I’d been in a good feeling place about it.  But that’s generally how it happens.  You start with an idea or a notion and as you focus on it it builds and builds (momentum, Law of Attraction, etc) and gets stronger and stronger and stronger in terms of your vibration and you’ve done 99% of that before you see it on a physical level, it reaches a critical mass and it manifests.  At that point you’re also not ‘looking’ for it because your consciousness is very much in a place of the PRESENCE of it, i.e. you’re not looking on the outside for it because you ARE it or you’re living FROM it, in terms of your feelings and vibration.  And then when it happens it feels very logical - I’m not saying it’ll necessarily happen logically or rationally, it can happen in an infinite number of ways - it just ‘feels’ it’s the next logical step because that’s where you are vibrationally, and all part of the way things are.

It’s not about what you ‘do’ but about how you feel
Below I have listed some of the ways I lined up to it vibrationally.  You don’t have to ‘do’ all this, I’m only listing these processes for your awareness but it’s not what you ‘do’ it’s how you feel.  I mention the processes I did to feel a certain way but you can use other ways, you can use visualisation, whatever you want, the key thing is how you feel about what you want.  Also, if your desire is strong you’ll want to feel it in many ways anyway, and you may want to do processes BECAUSE you’re enjoying it. 

It’s always about YOUR VIBRATIONAL RELATIVITY to your goal, i.e. your relationship between where you are now and your goal, vibrationally, and closing that gap with your thoughts and feelings and it manifesting on a physical level.  Your emotions are a consequence, a symptom of the energy you’re flowing, and energy flowing is your connection to the big picture, that’s what connects you to everything you want and more.

Some of the things I did....
Ok, here are some of the processes I did in lining up vibrationally.  Remember, it’s not about what you ‘do’ but where you are vibrationally (how you feel about what you want), so you can do more than this, less than this, different than this, what’s important is how you feel

• Something I did a while ago is I went to a showroom and test drove a Jaguar (I have a friend who really likes to do this when she’s after a car, she likes to get the feel for it by doing this)

• Put myself on Jaguar’s mailing and email list, so I was receiving lovely  photos of cars that I liked

• I got a postcard from them (Jaguar) saying they had an open day and if I brought my license I could borrow their cars and drove them around town or where I liked and return them.  I drove five cars that day, I took them round and got experience of the types of cars and engines and the feel for them.  I was learning about what the different specifications meant, the engines, the features inside the car, etc.  Of course, from a manifesting point of view what was key was the experience I had IN them and how it felt

• I went onto the Jaguar website and looked into the different specification models they did, I printed out the photos, the colours, the photos they had on their site.  I’d focus on what I’d printed and imagining driving it and keep my attention on it for a while (so I got used to the vibration of it)

• I sometimes used the photos as desktop backgrounds on my computer.  I also printed photos out and put them on my walls.  This was something I was playing with and hadn’t done before, the benefits of doing this – i.e. putting pictures or reminders (it doesn’t have to be pictures) of what you want (you can photocopy bank statements and ‘alter’ the numbers to more attractive sums for example) is that during the day your attention can drift onto various things (however your conscious attention is not necessarily the most important), and this is a reminder for you.  When I say reminder it doesn’t have to be overt and conscious, it can be a unconscious and subliminal awareness, and is helpful in keeping you lined up vibrationally and not going off to focus on something not in alignment.  The way to tell is how you ‘feel’ with it, and ask yourself questions and tweak what you do based on how it feels.  If it’s not noticeable for you then you can try other things.  Use your own feelings as a guide for what works for you than on what anyone else says or does.

You can also put cheques (or other things) written to you for significant amounts of money on your fridge, or on your bedroom wall (so you see it when you wake up), or post-it notes (‘stickies’) on your bathroom mirror.  Of course, these things can be done at discretion based on who you’re living with, etc!  But you get the principle, and with a bit of creativity you can do things in a way that fits with your lifestyle and environment and works great for you

I have a friend who puts up bank statements, cheques and post-it notes all over the place, on her fridge, bedroom, near her computer, etc, she easily manifests all the money she wants.  She taught her teenager son how to think of the car he’d like and imagine it specifically and it’s the same for him too, he can think of the type of car or job he’d like and within a month or so he’d have it.

I remember reading a story many years ago about Jim Carrey how he said when he was supporting a baby and they were living off a bed on the floor in a single apartment in downtown LA, he was doing three comedy clubs a night, he would write a cheque to himself for $10million for ‘Acting Services Rendered’ and he’d forward date the cheque by a few years.  He said it made him feel better to visualise such things and “It wasn’t about the money, it was about where I’d be if I was making that kind of money.”

• I looked to see if there were videos of it, so I could feel being inside it

• My brother runs a car spares shop and I’d call him up and I’d ask him about cars and particularly Jaguars and I’d enjoy interacting and learning about the specifications and what engine types meant what and so on

What were the chats with my brother doing?  It was keeping my focus on what I wanted, it was allowing me to clarify and hone what I wanted (focussing the energy) and talk about what it would be like when I had it (vibrational alignment)

• I’d go online and read reviews of cars I was looking at.  It was helping me get clarity on the type of car I was looking for and what I liked.  If I had any questions or doubts about something (resistance) it was allowing me to get clarity and either remove the doubts because they were unfounded or get clarity on wanting something else, it was allowing me to get specific and focused and ‘pure’ in my thoughts (i.e. not have contradiction in them).  Aligned, focused, specific energy is powerful when your beliefs are in line with it.

The key thing is I was having fun and enjoying the process.  It didn’t matter if I got the car or if I didn’t, and in fact I told my brother this.  I said to him I was happily enjoying interacting, learning and knowing the nuances, this was FUN!  I was enjoying hearing about how lovely a luxury car is, how it feels, how it responds when you push on the accelerator, the features it has that ‘feel good’, the luxuries it provides, etc etc.  I would look at pictures and see the wooden panelling and feel the comfortable seats.  I would see and feel myself wrapping my hands on the steering wheel.  I’d hear the purr of the engine, and so on and so on
I didn’t think why is it not here yet, I just carried on with life and enjoyed thinking of the lovely aspects of this car

I was making the most of the now moment, whatever it was

I wasn’t going ‘Is it here yet?  Is it here yet?  Why is it not here yet?’  (i.e. resistance, doubt, questioning, etc)  The reason I wasn’t doing that is because I was happy in my present now moment, I was enjoying the thrill, the experience of it.  The manifestation is a consequence of that, rather than chasing the manifestation.  Something I’ve always said over the years is focusing on enjoying playing the game and letting the score take care of itself.

I loved my previous car which I’d had for 7 years and if her (I know I said ‘her’, she was my friend!) and I were to be together for longer then so be it.  In fact, when I part exchanged her for the Jaguar I was saying goodbye to a friend  lol  My point in this paragraph is being at peace with your present moment.  Remember it’s never the ‘reality’ of a situation, it’s always your perception of it (and there are an infinite number of perceptions you can have about it, abundance!), be at peace with the way things are and excited and eager for more (like the new car)

• I visualised driving it, what it would be like to have it, I got specific, I saw what I’d see, the beautiful interior, the steering wheel, I’d feel the seats under me, the leather and fabrics, the beautiful touches, I’d hear the gentle purr of the engine, and so on.  I allowed myself to experience it.

When I started thinking about the logistics of it, such as where I’d park it (I don’t have the gated estate with the drive just yet, it’s on it’s way) and the ‘logistics’ of it I told myself to focus on the car and feelings of the car and ‘trust’ the logistics will get taken care of; LOA will manage everything that is a vibrational match, so if I’m at peace and feel good about everything then that’s what will happen.  You just need to manage your vibration and everything else gets taken care of.  (Yes, that means the how, where, when, who, what if etc etc)

Another key was I really wanted it, which meant there was a good energy flow (you summon energy through your desire, you ‘allow’ the energy through your beliefs and in being lined up to it in terms of your emotions).  The car I was going to buy was around 30-40mins drive away but I didn’t think twice about going up there to view it and again to buy it
If you’re thinking about the how or doing or not doing certain things then in likelihood you’ve either got resistance about some things or don’t want it enough, when you want something so much you're focused on the PLEASURE and DESIRE

Ok, so what happened?
I was happily enjoying the fun of experiencing this (and other goals) and I remembered how it’s important to follow your joy in the present moment, as that is the way your higher self (or universe or god or whatever you want to call it) wants you to go.  Just before Christmas (07) I asked myself that question and I felt like I wanted to play a video game.  A recent video game....about racing cars lol.  So I played it for about a day and really got into it and enjoyed it.  Starting off with a small car and after winning races and earning prize money swapping it for bigger and better cars, and also selling previous cars.  I ended up with a Mercedez Benz amongst other top cars.

A perfect rendezvous is orchestrated
Anyway I was enjoying playing the game, not questioning why I was doing it other than that I was enjoying it (it was the holiday season after all lol).  Pretty soon I felt I’d played the game enough* and put it aside (the present moment joy was focusing on other things, the benefits of playing the game had been obtained).  That afternoon I decided to pay my mum a visit.  Now this was a spontaneous thing.  I was actually going to go slightly earlier but delayed it as I took care of some work.  As I left my place, about 200yards away was a beautiful Jaguar, the type I’d been thinking about (but not the one I ended up with)...and for sale!!!!  And at a good price!!!  I took down the number and proceeded to mum’s place.  On my way back the car was gone, it had only been there long enough for me to get the number.  So I called up the number that evening and spoke to the guy and wrote down the spec of the car.  This was great, it was getting me to think in terms of the specifics of the car, with the implication of me having one.  I was enjoying the interaction and the ‘playing’ in the whole process of this manifestation.  The guy said he was looking to sell early in the new year and we could talk then.

Remember I said I was going to go to mum's earlier but delayed it as I took care of some work?  He also said that they actually lived in another town and had only been there visiting a friend very briefly...which is when I happened to walk past (having delayed it instead of going earlier)....

(*At the time I was following my present moment joy in playing the game, however after seeing the car on the street I later thought that playing the game was getting me vibrationally lined up in driving a lovely car, and buying and selling cars and it being easy, but essentially being behind the wheel of a great car and how it FELT, I tend not to 'think' too much and stay more intuition oriented but it felt that that was one part the game playing had played.)

When your desire and belief are lined up, the answers keep knocking at your door

Over the next week or so I went online (now with the belief that the car was close; I’d seen one, it had manifested!  And price was close too) and looked into cars and gave my email address to sites so I’d receive email notifications.  I was looking up cars, reading about them (this was when I was chatting with my brother too), getting into conversations with people about them and so on, I was munching (energetically!) on this.

I also found during this period that I was seeing Jaguars and luxury cars everywhere, far more than I had previously been, I’d look out of the window and I’d see another.  This was telling me I was vibrationally close.

There were other cars (for sale) I’d seen and I was finding I was seeing better and better deals than the car I’d seen on the street, as lovely as that car was.

Very soon thereafter, one Friday I received an email notification for a car which looked very attractive and I looked into it and this is the one I got. 

I did my research on it, including checks, and it seemed very good.  it turned out that this was a better car than the one I’d been thinking about and saw that day (better model, better engine, better reliability and much more), AND it was at a significantly better price!  I did an online check and I was getting the car at a very very very good price relative to what it was worth on the market.  The interaction with the seller (not a private seller, he sold a few cars) was an excellent interaction, it all worked out very magically and very easily and was fun.  I even sent an email to the seller afterwards  saying thank you for the excellent experience I’d had in working with him (he had even got the car taxed without charging extra for his time)

The car and the whole experience worked out better than I might have planned or thought about, by being lined up and using my imagination to imagine how good it could be, and then thinking better and better feeling thoughts, allowing the universe to match my vibration. 

I had some people working on my property last year doing decorative work and one of the workmen saw a postcard I had from Jaguar on the sideboard, he said ‘Do you think you’ll have one or are you dreaming?’  I said to him ‘You can have it by dreaming’ ;)
It turns out the car I got is better than the one on the postcard he was referring to, a better model, a better engine, a smoother car, etc etc etc

It took me a while to write this post as I had to think back to the various events and co-events and things that I'd done, I had to track back, make some notes and put together the post from it.  I tend to be more in the moment and enjoying the experience and not 'thinking' too much, but getting great ideas and inspiration.  When you're in the flow and in the moment time flies by because you're so aligned and things come easily and quickly.

 

 

How do you use Law of Attraction when you don't know what Money feels like?

I posted my Manifesting Money post on a forum and I had a reply from someone asking me my opinion on what financial freedom would feel like.  My reply was that it was better to focus on HIS current experience, describing mine would give just that, i.e. my words and essences, the key would be tapping into HIS.

He replied back saying perhaps a better question for him to ask would be: "How do I create an experience I've never felt before?"

REPLY:
Well the premise of your question is that you need to know how something feels to experience it. So that would mean someone wanting to attract a 'soulmate' for the first time in their life would need to know how it felt? And so on...?

The answer lies in using the imagination. You are here as creators, to expand and grow and flow energy. it's never about the goals it's about the energy ('life force' etc) they get you to flow, that's why they feel so good, the 'desire' is life force/energy.

The other thing to remember is that you are aware of the concept of financial freedom, so you have some awareness about it and you have a desire for it otherwise it wouldn't have come up. So in your now position right now you already have aspects of this and that's what you do, you focus on what you do have, or even pretend - that too stimulates thought, it's never whether a thought is real or not it's about how it feels.

So what's the best thought or feeling you can have on the financial freedom scale right now? It may not be 'financial freedom' (or it may be!), but a better thought on that scale?

And as you focus on those thoughts (or thought), and as you focus them and hold your attention to them, without contradicting them, you will start to attract other thoughts that resonate with it, that are a vibrational match, and from that new vantage point you'll have thoughts available to you you didn't have previously, and so on....

So it's never about feeling the end state (eg financial freedom) right now necessarily, it's constantly asking yourself better feeling thoughts, in whichever context and whatever the goal and relative to your now position, because that's all you can work with, the present moment (because that's all there ever is! :) ) You can use an anticipated future to stimulate present moment thoughts.

If people were only thinking/feeling thoughts they 'knew' they could only regurgitate, rather than using their imagination to expand their thinking and experiences in new ways.


Other ways of stimulating the the thoughts from yourself, you could ask yourself:
-What 'might' financial freedom feel like?
-If I knew what it was like what would it be like?
-If I was to pretend to have it, what might it feel like?

And remember to focus on the thoughts and hold them and not contradict them, milk them for the energy they provide you

 

 

Getting into the JOY of the activity

This was a reply I wrote in a group in Facebook to a budding author who was finding frustration in writing her book.  She was a full time teacher and frustrated that her first novel hadn't been taken on to be published yet and in despair that her agent had suggested her writing another novel instead:

My reply:
Get into your novel writing such that you enJOY it so much that time flies by and you're not wondering about publishers and agents and books but loving what you're doing so much, practice your mindset/vibration towards it such that it's the joy that thrills you, that is your reward.

The other thing I'd add is realise the universal stream is infinite. That's why you don't need to 'push harder' to make it 'go faster', you just need to line up with it (in terms of thoughts and feelings being in line with it) and the momentum (including Law of Attraction) will speed it up, and it will get easier and easier and more and more fun. The results will find you and you won't be looking for them, but of course your reward would be the thrill of it anyway... ;)

Reply:

Hi Hemal,
Thanks so much for your words. They are so encouraging and you are right - enjoyment is the key. Feel free to post what you wrote in response to my thread - the more people who can benefit from what you said the better!

Ruth x