Attracting someone specific...

See also: Using the Law of Attraction in Attracting Soulmates

I read your article on how you really wanted the Jaguar and got it!  Amazing.. anyways I really hope you can help me because I think its fate that I have this opportunity to seek advise from you.. i really like this young man and I know he is the one for me but he has not shown much interest back yet.. although I know deep down we are going to be spending the rest of our lives together can you please help me or guide me how to use the law of attraction to manifest my dream to be together with him forever.thanks very much.. I would really appreciate it if you could help me....

With these sorts of scenarios, you focus on what it would feel like to be with this person, how does it feel, what are the qualities, and you think, and you visualise and FEEL from that place. You will feel excitement.

I know you feel this is 'The One', I will say that there are many 'Ones', the Universe (God, or whatever you want to call it) is abundant, including this one you have found. Let go that it is this one, in that you are allowing this one, or any other, that feels and has qualities at least as good to be in your life

By you 'forcing' this particular person, it could push against it. The way you know is how you feel. You see, the Universe is not scarce or limited, it will provide you everything you want, but it will find the best 'form', i.e. it can be this person or another but it will reflect back how you feel, if you feel wonderful, in love, looking ahead to a wonderful future, having all the things you think about, and more, it will reflect that back. Just focus on what feels good. And if things appear not to be 'going to plan', let go of thinking of this particular person and let it come to you in the best way. If you believe in God or anything else, it's all the same thing, have faith in the bigger picture, and stay feeling from a wonderful place so it can find its way to you


I m so happy that you replied to me.. you are absolutely right.. i will focus on the qualities and not the one person.... the right person could be him but its the qualities that i m so drawn to and i know,i know like I know he is coming soon into my life...may god bless u always.


You could be fixated on this guy, and not know how he is about marriage, but there might have been another guy standing right next to you who was at least as 'perfect' for you and was ready and willing and wanting to be with you but you never saw him because you were looking at this other guy, so focus on what you want to feel and experience, and let the form take care of itself, it can happen in the most wonderful and magical of ways

And also take it as a sign from God/Universe etc, that the fact that you've experienced something tells you you are thinking/feeling in a good way and are on your way

Comments

[D]

you are amazing!

[Hemal]

Thank you!
:)

[Milla]

Dear Hemal. I wonder if it is ok to insist to have sth/someone? How do we know it is based on God`s divine plan? As a good christian/pentecostal one should submit everything to God. I m still on the horns of a dilemma ...

[Hemal]

Hi Milla,

It is about putting your attention on the essences (/qualities) of what you want and letting the Universe/God orchestrate the details

"Insisting" implies that you know better than what the Divine can orchestrate for you. By you aligning yourself with the essences/qualities you are opening the path for either that specific someone or someone else, but either way in your alignment you are attracting something that is a match to what you want - so the key thing is putting your vibration to what you want and being happy about it and letting the Universe match that

[nouran]

is it possible if i like some person i cant attract him or her to like me too ???

[Hemal]

Nouran, it's about you finding what feels best to you and the Universe will match that. Whether it be this person or another, it would be a match.

[Mimi]

I've just read this and the last paragraphy struck me the most. I was the girl who was focused on the wrong guy and I had the right guy standing next to me, but failed to notice..

is there still a chance that I could attract the 'right' guy? I have grown emotionally and have become stronger after being in bad situations. My life now for the first time in ages in taking shape and I've got good people around me, Im assertive and confident. I'm trying new things and loving life..so is it possible that the guy I failed to notice, but now on reflection with my positive mind - I can see that I was stupid to miss the opportunity..can I attract him now that I feel that is the best thing for me, i can see clearly now. Advice would be appreciated. I loved this article.

[Hemal]

Similar to what the article says, Mimi, focus on your own flow and the essences/qualities of what you'd like. You then make it easier to come into your life.

[Zita]

great advice! i will apply what you have said.. thank you! :D